finding the good in break ups

Break ups suck. Yeah I said it, they suck. BIG TIME. I've had my fair share & wish I didn't. But although they hurt, make you wanna binge on Netflix and eat food all day (yes, I'm guilty) there is good in them. You just probably don't see it.

First of all, lots of questions go through your mind -

• Was I not good enough?
• Did I do something wrong?
• I thought everything was great?

Or you could be the one doing the breaking up with and you feel horrible & confused. Well don't cha worry JORDAN TO THE RESCUE, I'm here to help you realize that its not the end of the universe -

• You probably will hate hearing this as much as I do but you're young. Chances are if you're reading my blog right now you are around my age or a little older. You are a teenager. A TEENAGER who likes going to dances & hanging out with friends. A teenager who sometimes acts stupid, crazy, and frankly immature. Its ok, we all have our moments. You most likely have about... 86 more years of your life left. Don't waste the time where its still socially acceptable to say words like "salty" worrying about a boy.

 

• There will be someone else. Just because you ended it with your freshman year fling does not mean you're gonna be alone forever. There will be many more cute guys/girls who give you butterflies & make you think that you could conquer anything and to be honest most of them will just be passing through. Although one day... When you've had your fair share of relationships and ups & downs... There will be someone waiting who God made specifically for you (as cheesy as that sounds its true) :-)

• God is always there. People pop in & out of your life but God is here for the long run. While you're wiping your eyes every two seconds with tissues and stuffing your face with carbs God is right beside you saying he'll never leave you. No man will ever be as great as him.

• If it ended, there is a reason. I mean c'mon, it didn't end "just because". There was a reason and you guys just weren't meant to be together. A lot of the time people assume maybe it was something they did. Or maybe they can fix it, but in the end the only problem is that you aren't right for each other.

If I could give you one solid piece of advice it'd be - wait. Wait to date because there will be a lot of guys/girls that you'll meet and 85% of the time they wont be the one you spend the rest of your life with. But I understand, I'm 16 too and boys are really cute, honestly half the time I want them to be a little uglier so its not so easy to get distracted. Anyways, for all of you in the dumps because you're just getting out of a relationship, I hope you see that there's some good that comes out of it.

See ya later dudesss.