dear future husband

Well hi, so the man I could possibly marry one day may be reading this & that's scary, nerve racking and exciting all at once. I picture you with dark hair, gorgeous eyes & ya know maybe a love for chick fil a like me, but I could be way off. I have no idea who you are or when I'm going to meet you, or even if I already HAVE met you (which woah that's pretty cool man). All I know is God has you picked out for a reason & he knows what he's doing. Yes yes I know, I'm only 16 and I get excited when ever I talk about that kind of stuff but I know for certain a lot of other girls are the same way. Don't get me wrong, I'm enjoying late night sonic drives, jamming to music at 2am & laughing till my stomach hurts at last minute sleepovers, I wouldn't trade that for anything. I'm just a big ole dreamer and have a huge imagination at times.

We may have crossed paths before. Maybe in the halls of school or just out and about randomly. I haven't the slightest idea of when I will meet you officially or if we're already good friends. But listen up, if we're gonna be growing old together, getting grey hair and all, I need to tell you a few things about me. Actually a few things about US. So here it goes -

Dear future husband, please make me a priority and I'll make you one. I'm not asking for all the attention to be on me 24/7 all day everyday, but I want us to be a priority in your eyes. I don't expect flowers, chocolate and hand written letters all the time. Heck who has that kind of time ? I just don't want something that shouldn't, come before us & our marriage (ohmygosh that sounds weird to say).

Dear future husband, on top of that make God a priority. Although making me a priority is great, don't leave the guy who made ya out in the cold. I mean c'mon he gave you me ;) (TOTALLY JOKING I'm not actually a brat) Give time to God & I promise I will do the same. We can do it together dude... oh & yes, even when we're married I will most likely call you dude.

Dear future husband, always stay true and be honest. Everything I have been telling you so far I will be doing as well, including this one. This one is one of the most important things that comes along with any relationship in my eyes. Not being honest with one another will put elephants in the room and make for a rough life together. Now I understand.. I don't wanna know about how many times you went to the bathroom that day, I'm not looking for that kind of honesty hahah ha haaa. I'm looking for a person who doesn't keep things from me that should be shared. Stuff that if you were to tell me, we could work through it together.

Dear future husband, lastly lets keep each other accountable. In everything we do lets be eachother's teammates. Going to the gym? lets keep eachother accountable. Starting a new job? Lets keep eachother accountable. I'm not kidding, in every aspect we should be there for eachother, pushing to do our best.

Ok after all that I may have scared you, but pls don't be frightened. I'm excited about meeting you & learning about your goofiness & quirks. I'm thankful for you already although I don't even know if we've crossed paths. So here's to us and hopefully getting this show on the road in like... 10 years? I'm still in high school soooo it'll be no time soon.

Love, Jordan (aka your future wife)

p.s. if we're gonna be married we're getting a pet pig. No arguing.