Challenge Accepted

My friends recently gave me a challenge. Not a normal challenge. You might be thinking something like maybe the cinnamon challenge (nope), the warhead challenge (never), or even the doughnut challenge (eh... possibly). It was something completely different. They challenged me to stay single till this summer. They didn't do it because they think I "get around" or date many guys. They just want to keep me accountable.

I wanted to blog about this because I think it's important for girls to know that they don't need a guy in their life 24/7. Well... Unless you're 50 with 30 cats ;-) Seriously though, I see so many girls nowadays relying on there boyfriends for happiness and once it ends with that one guy, they find happiness in someone else. First of all, a guy isn't the source of your happiness Jesus is. Second of all, sometimes you just need a break from guys to just focus on you, and that's not a bad thing. I just got out a relationship a few weeks ago and I'm definitely NOT looking for another one. I want some time to focus on God, my friend relationships, and school (whoop whoop)!!!

My youth pastor said something about a month ago that really stuck with me. "Every person you date, you give them a piece of your heart. Your husband is gonna want your whole heart. Not half of it". I cant stress how true this is. Yes I know, this is coming from someone who has been in a couple relationships that didn't work out, but that doesn't mean I don't believe what he said. Ladies (& gents if you're reading this) you don't need a boy or girl. If you're already in a relationship and you're happy, stay in it :-) Don't let what I said bring doubt into your mind. Although if you are single and just looking for a boyfriend to have a boyfriend. PLS PLS PLS stay single. Don't give a piece of your heart away just because you want someone that you think will give you the happiness you're looking for. Wait for God to bring someone into your life that could potentially one day be your husband. I promise you, you won't regret it.

Hope this wasn't too long and drug out, I really had some stuff to say about it as you can see : ) I wanted to get my point across & I think I did.

Alrighty, see ya later dudesss.